power to the PALEOISTA!

Style and Confidence Combined with Eating Real Food

Check out my few favorite lifestyle guru Nell Stephenson. http://paleoista.com/."Not interested in the ‘caveman’ approach?  Neither am I. Yes, I’m an athlete, but I’m still feminine. It’s LouBoutins over Vibrams for me, and it doesn’t stop at the shoes! " . Nell was one of the collaborators of The Paleo Diet Cookbook with Dr. Loren Cordain, PhD and Lorrie Cordain. The perfect mixture of chef, athlete and  lover of fantastic shoes. If she loves LouBoutins then I am sure she loves lipgloss!

SHOCKING SELF TALK

Mirror, Mirror on the wall…

I knew I could be doomed the minute I walked into the yoga studio that had the WALL of MIRRORS!  My “home” base for my yoga practice at Kansas Siddhi Yoga doesn’t have mirrors. So, it’s uncommon for me to practice with my reflection staring back at me.  Or anyone one else’s reflection, for that matter.  Also, teaching yoga with various angles reflecting back to the class is just one more wardrobe malfunction waiting to be witnessed.

Without mirrors you can feel the verbal cue to align your body in a certain way rather than look in the mirror. You can keep any negative judgments about your pooch, saddle bags, muffin top or need for a highlight at bay.  You can keep your ego in check if you find your forward bend is deeper, your ass is tighter and your hair looks better than the girl on the mat in the back. You can keep your thoughts focused on your breath, turning inward, not the buying into the external bologna a mirror can trigger.

The mirror, among MANY other things, can stir up useless, untrue, and irrational “self talk”.  IF, IF,  IF,  you allow that power.  That’s where the discipline of practicing positive self talk, choosing a mantra, comes to life. There is something so Stuart Smalley about this topic. I know its corny but, I’m passionate about it. Patterns of negative or positive self-talk often start in childhood. Usually, the self-talk habit is one that’s colored our thinking for years. I can still hear that jerk from high school who called me “Squaron” after coming to my high school swim meet. He was inspired by my square like shape in my speedo, from boobs to hips. Sadly, it still pops into my head. Thankfully, my awareness to that thought has lessened over the last twenty years because I have a positive phrase I come back to….in those moments.

Consider the truth behind the TUT tag line that “thoughts becoming things…choose the good  ones”…. http://www.tut.com/theclub/

• What do you say when you talk to yourself?
• If your brain printed out every thought like a ticker tape out your mouth, would you EVER say those same words to anyone else?
• How would you feel if you best friend said the exact thing back you that first started as a thought in your head?
• Do you feel empowered by your thoughts?
• Are you hurting the God that created you by slaying his DIVINE creation…you?

One problem is that negative self talk reinforces the irrational ideas you already have. Each time you repeat one of those negative phrases you are actually making your irrational idea stronger …..key word that keeps getting repeated is IRRATIONAL!   

Final obstacle at the Tough Mudder

Switch it, flip the switch like a shockwave running through your body. Interrupt those negative thoughts and switch them to empowering, kind and nurturing thoughts. Let THOSE shockingly fabulous thought become …..things.

This isn’t new information about positive self talk. Solomon wrote in Proverbs 23:7, “As a man thinks in his heart so he is”. Paul wrote in Philippians  4:8  “Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, think on these things.”

Humans have been consistently filling our head with crap….since the Old Testament.

Start here, simply create a short phrase (mantra) you can come back to when a negative thought pops in….

Here are a few I borrowed from Louise Hay…. http://www.louisehay.com/affirmations/

• I am strong
• I am kind and loving
• I am gorgeous and perfect in every moment
• My day is filled with peaceful interactions
• I am my own unique self - special, creative and wonderful
• All my relationships are loving and harmonious
• I am at peace
• I trust in the process of life
• My life is a joy filled with love, fun and friendship
• I choose love
• This is a new day, I am a new me!
• I release feelings of competition or comparison, I enjoy being ME!
• I am in the right place, at the right time, doing the right thing.

stay glossed and growing,

sharona

The psychology behind self talk.

http://www.vitalaffirmations.com/affirmations.htm#affirmations for self-esteem

SHIFT HAPPENS

It can be hard for me and most women to “own” and say out loud something good about themselves but…. I am stronger, more “fit, and leaner than this time last year. WHY is this hard to confess?  Like a typical female my results have always been attached to the numbers on the scale and it’s been hard to recognize when those numbers don’t say what you want. Somehow my brain still thinks I can miraculously weigh what I did in 1997. If I don’t weigh that number then I must totally SUCK as a human.  I can proudly say those moments of scale insanity come less frequently.  “Shift Happens”, through consistent sweat, practical nutrition changes and TONS personal reflection. And of course, saying good bye to the frequent trips to Dolce, Cupcake ala Mode and Connies Cookies. The “2 weeks until Padre Island” eating plan doesn’t work anymore when hormones and gravity start to take over.

My name is Sharon Prothe and I am a diet-a-holic. I’ve done it all. I am a lifetime member of Weight Watchers (many pounds lost after tipping the scales at 191 with my first pregnancy). I have snuck into Slim4Life and posed as a “member” at another location to get the miracle shakes. I embarrassingly admit to a program that rhymes with Lenny Traig. I have books by Jillian, Bob, Kathy Freston, and Buddah on how to eat. Where do I  begin to start with all of the ‘exercise” programs and ideas I have adopted over the years.  Yes, I have the Ab Roller,

And finally, I am in recovery. But everyday my battle with food choices and body image "beat-down" can rear its ugly head.  Why success this time? Because there is not a next time. This lifestyle shift was an intentional choice. I am fully supported and I choose to stay the course…

1. I have stayed consistent with my workouts executing their intelligent design and smart programming. http://www.bootcampfitnesskc.com/about/

2. Shifted my diet to fuel my performance as a wife, mama, athlete, friend, and yogini with more quality protein, vegetables, a little bit of fruit, nuts and fat. http://www.marksdailyapple.com/

3.  The mindful shift to being MY best rather than a number on the scale or jean size. The improvements to your physical body happen when you remove them as the #1 goal and focus on your health. 

http://www.moyoga.com/

How did I start…

• I stopped being stubborn and took the leap and made the changes.http://www.thesuccessprinciples.com/
• I began to think of my body as a science experiment. Obviously,  if I’m not at my best,  then what I have always done isn’t working. I had to do something different, actually everything.
•  I stopped being afraid to have muscles. Muscles defy gravity. Now I am afraid of the the large cinnamon roll at Waid’s.
•  I got off the elliptical machine…and started to jump, squat, lunge, burpee, lift, pull-up and SWEAT!
•  I read more, journal more, pray more, sit and listen more……to what was really holding me back from reaching my goals.
• I set specific goals for races and trained to compete.
• I increased my home yoga practice.
• Gave myself the grace of forgiveness when I bought the “kids” some cupcakes but they never made it home. 

What are you waiting for if you're not living fully and joyfully. Are letting food or weight stand in your way, YOU can change that. GO FOR IT!


"The ICE CAPS are melting!" ~Gina Caputo

Lip Gloss Love, 

sharon

A Girl on the Run....towards what?

Choosing to be a Girl on the Run(GOTR) when you’re 9 or 39  can look very different or exactly the same. I’ve taken these lessons from the GOTR manual and recently I have realized the type of Girl on the Run I don’t want to be. The type that is always running - herself ragged. My mom even told me the other day, ”you’re no spring chicken” and that I should slow down.  This past spring was my 2^nd season as a coach for GOTR,  a positive youth development program that inspires girls to stay true to themselves and live free from social stereotypes. We train for 12 weeks to complete a 5k run with lessons that empower girls to celebrate their bodies, honor their voices, and embrace their gifts! WOW, now that is a girl on the run I aspire to be…not a ragged, tired, exhausted one!

A Girl on the Run doesn’t have to be 3rd – 6^th grade to find the richness within these lessons.  I am a 40 year old Girl on the
run, and the same lessons I taught a group of 4th graders I am trying to apply into my life, daily.   

What are you “on the run” towards or away from?  I run miles on the street, run to  Target, run to yoga, run to my CrossFit  WOD in the dark of the morning(usually 2 minutes late  which means I start my day, behind already at 5:02 am), run into the shower .  I run away from discomfort, I run towards peace, I run to Nordstrom for a shoe sale and to the bathroom before double unders.

I see it in the athletes I coach everyday as they almost drive through the plate glass windows into Bootcamp Fitness for the 9:15 am class. Which by the way,  triple’s in attendance by 9:25am because everyone has been running late.   And then, they run out the door to run even more.

What type of Girl on the Run are you?

Are you running ragged or running toward empowered?

How is that serving you in your life?

Below are a few lessons straight from the Girls who want you to Run toward being proud, assertive, healthy, self-disciplined, grateful and humble….just to name a few.

Lesson #1

It’s ok to choose our friends – Do your friends bring out the best in you? Do they celebrate who you are? Where does being a confident person come into the pictrure? Would a self assured girl spend time with someone who enhances who she is or someone who puts her down?

Lesson #2

Standing up for myself – Standing up for ourselves and our values means we are asserative and this is a very strong and brave way to live. 

Lesson #3

Emotions are not good or bad, they are either comfortable or uncomfortable. There are phrases that you can use to communicate these types of uncomfortable emotions and  stand up for ourselves in situations when we are experience things that make us uncomfortable.

The phrases are:

I feel – when you start a statement this way, you are making it easier for the other person to listen to what you are saying.  It lets them know exactly how you feel. Its much better to start with I than  YOU  to keep the other person from getting defensive

When you – You are telling the exact behavior of a thing that is making you feel the way you do. This allows you to be very specific about what is bothering you.

Because – This tells the person how their behavior makes you feel a certain way and gives them a better understanding why you feel  this way

I would like for you to – This explains to the person in a respectful  and non demanding way what you would like them to do differently. It gives them a chance to change the behavior that is upsetting you.

Lesson #4

Valuing what is really important –Anytime we are faced with a tough decision we should remember our values and then do what we think is right.

Lesson #5

STOP, BREATHE, LISTEN and RESPOND – before you make a move you might regret.

Lesson #6

Celebrating Gratitude – Seeking gratitude for our circumstances is a choice. Seeking gratitude provides us with a positive perspective of our circumstances.

Lesson #7

Positive Self Talk – Imagine a bright white light in your body, right near your heart. The light is so bright and when we are feeling good about ourselves it shines out of us- through our eyes, our fingertips, in the way we walk and stand up tall and straight. That white light is the very essence of who we are. It is what makes us special and unique and beautiful inside. Picture a large socket in the top of your head – like an electrical wall outlet. The inside of this cord is really yucky – it's got dirty slow moving liquid  flowing through it. It also has messages coming through it for your brain.  We don’t feel  good with this negative cord coming into our spirits.  PULL that cord right out of the socket on the top of your head.  Plug in the cord that helps us stand tall and believe in ourselves.

Pardon the spelling and grammatical errors, but.....I Gotta Run....Sharon

Finding BLISS with the BARBELL

4 Things Women Should Be Doing in Their Fitness Training—But Aren’t

click on the link to read this great article...

Will lifting weights make me big? No, but what you're shoving down you pie hole will....

If I had a quarter for every time someone said to me they did not want to lift weights because they are afraid of getting BIG, I'd buy a Dunkin Donuts franchise and see them at the counter.  Because... most of them are afraid to lift weights but they are NOT afraid to eat a donut, bagel, vanilla latte, Panera sandwich, cupcake or have 2 or 6 glasses of wine every night before bed. Those items in excess, not the barbell , will make you big. When you cut the fluff from your food choices and follow these principles for fitness your tricep will start to pop out.  You might THINK you are getting bigger when actually, you are getting smaller, leaner and healthier. And really who cares...if you are working out smart, eating well, sleeping, doing yoga, and detaching from the worlds false idea of  a "perfect" body, your heart and sense of self will feel BIG and eventually your ass might just become smaller.

Mike Tyson or Michelangelo

POSITIVE (not sucky) INTENTIONS

Did you know there is actually a book titled Bad Intentions; The Mike Tyson Story, by Peter Heller.

vs. 

"In every block of marble I see a statue as plain as though it stood before me, shaped and perfect in attitude and action. I have only to hew away the rough walls that imprison the lovely apparition to reveal it to the other eyes as mine see it."—Michelangelo

People set intentions on all kinds of dreams; to be kind , make a career change, to write a book, lose weight or lose their mom jeans. Sometimes unknowingly we sent an intention on the pathway straight to SUCKY!  I am so stressed, I look like I'm getting fatter, I have no patience with any human or animal, my week is starting out HORRIBLE! When we set a positive intention  and then act on it to demonstrate our commitment, amazing things occur. Intention can also give us fortitude for dealing with tough times. My father recently passed away. My intention is to live through this process with strength and grace. I am tested daily. It’s often not easy, but this intention has helped me maintain composure, peace, and on a good day, a sense of humor. Intention can be used for community or personal issues, global events or daily tasks,  putting down the cupcake or drinking more water.

BREAK IT DOWN, like TONE LOC

First Steps:

1. Get clear about something you want and write it down.

2. Share your intention with someone in a way that will supportively hold you accountable to taking action.

3. Do something today to demonstrate your commitment to your intention.

4. Acknowledge that you did what you said you would and then, take the next step.

By setting an intention, you make it clear to yourself and others, just what you plan to do. Set an intention to redefine what it means to be serious about your dreams and fully embracing all God INTENDED for  you!

Caramel Chocolate Crack

my famous CHOCOLATE CARAMEL BROWNIES

Marzettis Caramel Apple Dip (not low fat) small can evaporated milk 3/4 C butter 1 pkg. German chocolate cake mix 1 c. or more chocolate chips (semi sweet) In a mixing bowl melt 3/4 C butter Add German chocolate cake mix 1/3 cup of evaporated milk  Mix into a batter Spread half of the batter into a 9x9 inch pan Bake at 350 degrees for 10-12 minutes Remove from oven Pour melted caramel over batter (after baked).  Sprinkle 1 cup of chocolate chips on top Flatten the rest of the batter like a pancake between your hands  Lay the pieces on the top of the caramel and choc chips Bake at 350 degrees for 18-20 minutes Let the brownies cool in the refrigerator and make sure you allow plenty of time for the caramel and chips to become firm before you cut them or it will be a gooey mess.